The sax chose me in a way.
Ever since I can remember, my favorite toys were the ones that made music. I'd pick out childhood songs on those toy pianos, xylophones, etc.
I wanted to be in the school band in the 6th grade, but I started a bit late due to moving to Florida and no instruments were available. Pompano was a very small town then. So I joined the "Tonette" and "Flutaphone" band. (plastic recorder-like instruments)
7th grade came around, still no instruments available so I joined the band playing drums. All the new guys got a pair of sticks and a practice pad. I wanted to play Baritone Horn because I thought it sounded beautiful.
A couple or few months later the tenor saxophone player's family moved, and the band director said, "Who wants to play the saxophone?" and I guess I raised my hand more enthusiastically than the rest. At that point, anything that made a melody was better than paradiddles and triple ratamacues.
I took to the sax and every year in high school I was first sax in the all-state band and section leader (that usually went to the alto player by default). I never got anything less than "Superior" in solo competition and started playing in rock bands.
My first rock band was when I was still in Junior High School. I was playing with my friends. We were terrible, but so was everybody else back then. We got hired to play at a Junior High School Sock Hop dance. So there I was on the stage with my friends, we were playing the tunes we loved and had practiced so hard to work up, and that cute girl who wouldn't acknowledge my existence in English class was suddenly 'making eyes' at me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And at the end of the night they actually paid me money for it.
I've been doing it ever since. Along the way I picked up vocals, bass, guitar, flute, wind synthesizer, keyboard synth (I wouldn't consider myself a pianist) and I still do drums - although I'm very out of practice.
I'm in a duo, sequence my own backing tracks, and that led to a part-time 'moonlighting' business of writing aftermarket styles and fake disks for Band-in-a-Box.
I'm old enough to retire but I have no intention of doing so. When I get on stage and start making music, it's as much fun as it was in that first junior high school dance. All of a sudden I have no age, no cares, no concept of time, and the music seems to flow through me and not from me. The sax is my main instrument and will always be, but I wouldn't want to give up any of the others either.
I've made a living doing music and nothing but music, and I have no regrets. Music is my bliss.
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