Thanks for the replies! So these posts seem to indicate a belief that there really is no differentiation between breaking in a reed and softening it. Let me know if anyone disagrees. I'll try working on reeds right out of the box and see how that affects my results.
Another thing I'm curious about is the difference between breaking in/softening a reed by taking material off of it (sanding) or by bending it (either with a bottle or simply though lots of playing) to loosen the fibers like adamk.
Obviously this all boils down to me trying to exercise some control and understanding over what is most likely an inevitably uncontrollable and variable process with natural cane.
Another thing I'm curious about is the difference between breaking in/softening a reed by taking material off of it (sanding) or by bending it (either with a bottle or simply though lots of playing) to loosen the fibers like adamk.
Obviously this all boils down to me trying to exercise some control and understanding over what is most likely an inevitably uncontrollable and variable process with natural cane.