I've had many tones over the years from a Desmond, to Grover To sanborn to at times Kenny Garret influenced. But as I get older I notice the same thing you do . My sound is the voice I want to sing with. Not like someone else. Ive gone back to longer long tones 20 secs soft to loud to soft and that has opened more options for me. You have to watch recordings though. Mic and mic placement can dramatically change what is recorded and it sometimes isn't what you thought it was. I have a ribbon mic which does my sax well but I use a condenser mic for my flute and that helps the tone. Go by what you like. I used to play "good tone" with some bands and I blended so well I couldn't hear myself the entire gig. Not my idea of a good time K