A Harness would deffiantly help you out some. My expierence with harnesses as a Tenor player is that it gets the weight off you Neck, and onto your shoulders. Which is a very nice comfort. You simply have to march how the director wants you to march. You could ask him if you could march with the horn to the side, but if he says no. Then their is only one thing to tell you.
HIT THE GYM.
HIT THE GYM.