If a new 3 is as hard as a broken in 3 1/2, buy a couple of 2 1/2's.
Given your latest description, I think the bigger issue is your articulation. If I understand correctly, you interrupt the air flow by touching your tongue to the roof of your mouth while the underside of the tongue touches the reed? Don't do that.
I'm not entirely clear on how your staccato works either. You said tongue between the teeth. While that makes sense on flute, there happens to be a mouthpiece between your teeth on sax. So where does your tongue actually go? If it actually touches your teeth, then you're not putting the mouthpiece in your mouth correctly.
I think you went in the wrong direction very early and developed some bad habits that are going to take a lot of time and effort to correct. You really need one on one with a teacher. Even skype/zoom if that's the only practical solution right now. Something where an experienced player or teacher can see and hear what you're doing and demonstrate the correct approach so you can see and hear it.
I don't think he covers tonguing, but check out Jay Metcalf's (Better Sax) beginner Youtube videos about embouchure to at least get to a good starting point. I'll update this post with a link later, if I can find the video I'm thinking of.
Given your latest description, I think the bigger issue is your articulation. If I understand correctly, you interrupt the air flow by touching your tongue to the roof of your mouth while the underside of the tongue touches the reed? Don't do that.
I'm not entirely clear on how your staccato works either. You said tongue between the teeth. While that makes sense on flute, there happens to be a mouthpiece between your teeth on sax. So where does your tongue actually go? If it actually touches your teeth, then you're not putting the mouthpiece in your mouth correctly.
I think you went in the wrong direction very early and developed some bad habits that are going to take a lot of time and effort to correct. You really need one on one with a teacher. Even skype/zoom if that's the only practical solution right now. Something where an experienced player or teacher can see and hear what you're doing and demonstrate the correct approach so you can see and hear it.
I don't think he covers tonguing, but check out Jay Metcalf's (Better Sax) beginner Youtube videos about embouchure to at least get to a good starting point. I'll update this post with a link later, if I can find the video I'm thinking of.