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I know some really good players that can't listen. They step on vocals. They play distracting "background" while others solo. They're so self-absorbed in what they do, they miss cues and nuances that can flavor a tune. Heck, I was one of these guys back when I was young and getting started. Thankfully though, I got to grow up with strong armed pros who awakened me to my foibles. But it's probably what bothers me most when playing with others, and even listening to others play with their own groups. They just don't listen. And you can be hard on them about it, stopping it when mentoring. But once they reach a certain age... these bad habits seem to become engrained. And they'll never get it. They're so confident in their skills, that whatever they play they believe to be adding to the experience.
Saxophone players have a terrible reputation for this sort of thing. I may have said this before on another topic some time ago. But I recall being told by a guy I worked with for years who admitted whenever they did a gig and heard a saxophonist would be joining them, he knew they'd be in for a long night. And I've seen saxophonists absolutely wreck bands before; though of course this curse is not solely theirs to bear.
So have you become a better listener? Do you hear what others do behind you? Do you answer them or play over them? How soon do you jump on the space that builds a piece? Are you always playing?
Saxophone players have a terrible reputation for this sort of thing. I may have said this before on another topic some time ago. But I recall being told by a guy I worked with for years who admitted whenever they did a gig and heard a saxophonist would be joining them, he knew they'd be in for a long night. And I've seen saxophonists absolutely wreck bands before; though of course this curse is not solely theirs to bear.
So have you become a better listener? Do you hear what others do behind you? Do you answer them or play over them? How soon do you jump on the space that builds a piece? Are you always playing?