Problem playing band arrangements

[fred12]

I've been playing alto about 2 years, practice every day. I can play melodies fine but non-melody (2nd and 3rd) parts really throw me. I've tried sitting in with a local dance band but find I just get lost, no melody to follow and the other players distract me (don't laugh!). My teacher says the only way to learn is just to do it but - if I focus only on the chart I lose track of what everybody else is doing. If I listen to the others I lose my place on the chart. The play - alongs I've found are either too fast or have only first (melody) parts. Help! Is this just a lack of talent, or is there a way out of this quandry? By the way, i'm an old guy - over 60 - is it true that older people just naturally learn slower?

[steve]

As a 60+ player myself, and based on personal experience, I doubt that age has much to do with learning. Sure, a 13 year old will be "quicker" ( proof: try to play a video game against one), but not smarter. A "seasoned citizen" will have fewer distractions and better work habits ( as evidenced by your practice schedule).
A couple of observations. First, with only 2 years under your belt, you are still learning the basics. It takes a few years to have your skills become so habitual that you don't have to think about them. Your quickness and music reading skills will improve. Give it some more time. Second, perhaps you should focus on your part , develop some "tunnel vision", and let the director worry about what everybody else is doing....that way you will be less distracted. Maybe you could record the band and listen to everybody else later?

[Pinnman]

I know the feeling ... still! Developing a feel for place will take time. In any case, you must learn to count your way through each bar, not easy when you are trying to do so many other things as well, I know ... and have confidence in what you are doing. Playing inside parts - i.e. the harmony rather than lead or bass parts - is hard work. Just think yourself lucky you are not playing second tenor!

[tensopbass]

It does come good eventually. I find that practicing with the TV on helps, so does humming a tune over the top of the car radio.
For band parts, a minidisc recorded at band practice will help when your 2 or 3 part makes no sense on its own at home
A lot of school type band arrangements have a CD available (check the sales pitch on the conductor's score).
nicko

[fred12]

Thanks a lot for the help. I really appreciate your taking the time to pass along your thoughts and experiences. I will keep going, guess I can get there eventually!